Dirty talk can be beneficial to a couple, if it is done right. Making dirty talk part of your sexual advancement strategy will get it there quickly. Choosing to do it eliminates fear and gives you more courage. Talking dirty to your man will make you his sexual fantasy, and will get him to reciprocate in kind.
You need to learn the tricks to dirty talk. When you view it as a project, you will appreciate the need for constant learning. You may have has a style that was appreciated elsewhere in your past; do not copy paste it in your current relationship. Even for your man, there may be things he used to like and now he doesn’t.
There are certain consistencies to it though. Keeping an open line of communication works anytime.
You can only represent yourself here. Attempting to do what adult film stars do is not cool. Those efforts will not bear fruit. It is the quickest way to end the session. Say things only you can.
There should be a tone only you can produce. Dirty talk has more to do with how you are saying things, and less to do with what you may be saying. You, therefore, need to establish your signature tone, and refine it with time. Incorporate some sighs, moans, high-pitched shrieks, low whispers, and such. You will pique his interest with that cocktail of lovely sounds.
Get more colorful with your vocabulary. In the heat of passion, you are allowed to use dirty language. There is no harm in letting loose at that point.
Dirty talk should be practiced frequently. You can practice on yourself while touching your body. His absence should not stop you. You only need to allow yourself to think of a scene with him in it and then proceed to do and say the things you would if he was there with you. Your effort will bear fruit with time, making you proficient.
You also need to establish some boundaries. There are things you are not comfortable saying. This should be aired out well in advance. It will be good to know more about each other that way, so that no misunderstandings can wreak your union in future. Keep in mind though that there may come a time when something offensive is said unintentionally. This should not be taken out of context.
Dirty talk is a most enjoyable exercise when done right, between a couple. To avoid any conflict, all the rules need to be adhered to. When you keep these guideline in mind, you shall have a most enjoyable time, that will leave the both of you in a pool of ecstasy.